Whenever I
read the parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-42) I’m drawn to the character
of the elder brother. The father and his errant son are more easily understood,
the loving, grieving and forgiving Father and the wayward and repentant
Prodigal. The elder brother is perhaps more ambiguous.
It’s
possible to be quite sympathetic towards the elder brother. After all, he’s the
one who stayed at home, worked hard and supported his Father throughout his
life, particularly in the absence of a sibling who could help. Then the wastrel
turns up and is feted with exuberance and the bitter words spill forth from the
elder brother’s lips.
There are
many modern -day equivalents. Families may have fractured relationships due to
the responsibility of managing family finances or the care of elderly parents.
We see siblings divided over the sharing of their parent’s estates. Children frequently
feel that the parent’s love is not distributed evenly, that one child is the “favourite”.
Satan has
been at work in families from the beginning. The first murder recorded in the
Bible was Cain slaying his brother Abel, brother against brother. He’s still
trying to fracture families, the basic units of stability in a society, equally
so in church families.
It required
the prodigal’s father to remind his eldest son that he had it all:
“Son, you are always with
me, and all that is mine is yours.” (v.31)
Perhaps the eldest son requires a different
kind of sympathy. He doesn’t at that moment realize what he does have- the
constant love of his father and the inheritance of everything that his father
owns.
The story of course is a parable, a story
through which we learn lessons about life with God. At some point Christians
have all been prodigals, aware of their sin and need for forgiveness. And some
of us have also been like the elder brother, becoming bitter and critical
rather than generous and forgiving. We
need to be reminded to rejoice in the blessings of others and to just keep on
working for God, each day.
This story is a reminder to be thankful for
all the blessings that God has given us and the riches that we have in living
with Him, of which His presence in our lives is by far the most precious.
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